How to avoid feeling overwhelmed when hosting or entertaining

Dear Little Libbie, I’m a novice in the kitchen and find myself overwhelmed when planning a dinner party. How can I create a simple but impressive dinner that won’t leave me stressed out?

Hi there! Hosting a dinner party can be a lot of fun without the stress. Keeping things simple is the key. Here are some tips to help you plan a stress-free dinner party:

1. Plan Ahead: Start by planning your menu well in advance. Choose dishes you’re comfortable preparing and that can be partially prepped ahead of time.
2. Keep it Balanced: Aim for a balanced menu that includes a mix of flavors, textures, and colors. You might consider a main dish, a couple of sides, and a dessert.
3. Choose Simple Recipes: Opt for recipes that don’t have too many complicated steps or require hard-to-find ingredients. Stick to dishes you’ve made successfully before or recipes with clear instructions.
4. Consider Make-Ahead Dishes: Choose dishes that can be partially prepared the day before. Salads, certain desserts, or marinated meats can often be made in advance, reducing the workload (and stress) on the day of the party.
5. Play with Presentation: Even simple dishes can look impressive when presented well. Focus on plating—arrange the food attractively on the plates, use garnishes, and pay attention to details.
6. Don’t Overcomplicate: Sometimes, less is more. A few well-prepared dishes are better than trying to prepare too many things at once. Quality over quantity!
7. Don’t Forget Dietary Restrictions: Check if any of your guests have dietary restrictions or allergies and plan your menu accordingly. Offering a vegetarian or gluten-free option is thoughtful.
8. Delegate and Accept Help: Don’t be afraid to ask guests to bring a dish or help with simple tasks. Most guests are happy to contribute, and it can make the evening more interactive.
9. Enjoy Yourself: Lastly, remember that your guests are there to enjoy your company just as much as the food. Don’t stress too much! Enjoy the process and have fun.

I hope this helps! Good luck, and have fun hosting!

xo, LL